Hey, Tom here. Listen up.

What if I told you that by this time next year your life could be totally different?

Like a complete 180?

That you could pull yourself together and define where you’re headed?

What would it look like to you?


Right now, maybe this is you:

  • Wandering around post-college with a degree and no clue what to do with it. (You didn’t go into debt just to work at the bar again did you?)

  • Generally a positive and good person but find yourself blaming the Universe for all of your misfortunes. “This is my fate, just the way it goes. It’s just not in the cards for me.” Life is just happening TO you and you have no control. (Sound familiar?)

  • Asking yourself (and your friends, too) “Where do I go from here? How do I find my spark?”

That was me. I was that guy.

Right after Thanksgiving 2015, my girlfriend of 4 years told me she wasn’t in love with me anymore, my closest and best friends kicked me out of our band, and I was laid off from my job…

…All within 4 days.

It was the kind of loss tornado that forced me to confront everything I loved and feared.

I had zero clue what I was going to do without her or without them.

But on August 22nd, 2016 I wrote myself a note….

“You will not give up on yourself. You’ve got a year to do it - to change in positive ways…”

Two years later, I still have that note in my wallet and carry it with me every single day. Everywhere I go.


That’s why I created FindYOURS because I wanted to create a community to be a guide and serious support for your journey.

I’m not perfect (it’s better that way actually) but my hope is that you’ll embrace your imperfect courage and just start.

You can do the same 180 I did and I can help you get there.

So...what’s your next step? Believe that you really can make a change.

Then take a peek at at the blog to see how I was able to fully recover from a tumultuous break-up, get myself in good health, and leave the life that made me unhappy.

If you’re looking for some guidance then let’s connect! Find me on IG @t.d.see or send me an e-mail. Let’s figure out how we can get you on track. We can do this together. Where ever you want to get a hold of me, I’ll be there!


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I realized along the way that it would be so incredibly hard to give thanks to everyone for their support and encouragement so I want to take this opportunity so thank you to EVERYONE. I love you all.